Whether you come together as a couple or on your own, this is for marriages fifteen years in and beyond, with the kids nearly grown and the house about to get quiet.
Go from a good marriage that's quietly running on autopilot to one that feels intentional, deeply connected, and alive again. Not butterflies. Fireworks. And not just any fireworks. The Disney kind.
Tuesdays · July 21, 28, August 4 & 11 · 12–2 PM Eastern · Live on Zoom (recorded) · One spouse: $397. Both of you together: $697 ($100 off).
In one month, you'll be equipped with the knowledge, the understanding, and the practical tools to build a genuinely fulfilling marriage. And you'll start using them the very same week.
This isn't theory. It's the map back to each other.
Come as a couple, or come on your own. When one person learns this, the whole relationship starts to change.
Somewhere along the way, us became a to-do list.
Who's picking up whom. What's for dinner. Did you pay that. You love your spouse. That was never the question. But the two of you who once talked for hours now mostly run a household together.
And lately there's a clock you can feel even when no one names it. The kids are almost grown. In a few years it will be just the two of you across the table again, and if you're honest, part of you wonders what you'll even talk about when they're gone.
Here's the part almost no one says out loud: it's not bad. That's exactly what makes it so easy to leave alone. It's fine. It's comfortable. It works.
But fine is not what you said yes to at the altar. You didn't dream of a marriage that runs smoothly. You dreamed of one that feels alive.
Here's the truth I want you to sit with.
Almost none of us were ever taught how relationships actually work. We were handed vows and good intentions and told to figure it out. So we love the way we know how, we react the way we were raised to react, and we quietly wonder why two good people who love each other keep missing each other.
Here's something that will set you free: we fall in and out of love more than once in a single marriage. That's normal. That's every long marriage. The couples who last aren't the ones who never cooled off. They're the ones who learned to fall back in love on purpose. Because we fall in love almost by accident, but we do not stay in love by accident. That's a skill. And skills can be learned.
I've been married for twenty-two years, and I've spent twenty-six years studying how people think, feel, and connect, as a psychotherapist and as a wife doing this work in my own home. What I know for certain is this: the spark doesn't die. It gets buried under patterns nobody taught you how to see.
God did not design your marriage to be endured. He designed it to be enjoyed. And I am a fierce advocate for marriage, so I am not here to help you walk away. I'm here to teach you how to reignite the one you're in.
We meet live on Zoom every Tuesday from 12 to 2 PM Eastern. Each session, I teach. Then I open the room for real coaching, with real access to me. Between sessions, you'll get a challenge to put what you learned into practice immediately, because insight you don't use changes nothing.
And every session is recorded. So if you're traveling this summer or life gets loud, you won't miss a thing. You'll have each session to watch and rewatch whenever you need it.
Before you can build something beautiful with another person, there's inner work only you can do. Week one is the values, the self-awareness, and the personal skills you need to develop first, so that everything we build after it actually holds. This is how you set yourself up to succeed.
This is where I hand you my trademarked framework, the missing piece of communication that goes deeper than any technique you've ever been taught. It's the reason conversations end before they start, the reason you feel triggered, the reason one of you goes defensive in four seconds flat.
In the bedroom and the boardroom. Master F.U.S.E. and you'll finally communicate in a way that's clear, efficient, kind, and actually builds intimacy instead of eroding it.
We fall in love once, almost by accident. Week three is how you do it on purpose. We reignite the infatuation, the desire, the in-love feeling, and we make it intentional instead of leaving it to chance. This is the week the fireworks come back.
You said "I do" once, on one day, in one dress. A thriving marriage is built by saying it again every single day, in the small habits, the daily choices, the commitment you renew on purpose. Week four is how you refuse the going-through-the-motions marriage, and how you become partners in parenting, aligned even when your styles differ. Your teenagers and young adults are writing their own blueprint for love right now, by watching yours. There is no more important time to get this right.
Because when two people stop coexisting and start moving as a team, what you feel is an explosion of amazingness. The joy, the peace, the strength that come when you're finally united and pulling in the same direction. And your children feel it too. That is what we're building.
Hear me on this. Reignite is not something your spouse has to agree to before you're allowed to change anything.
If your spouse wants to join you, wonderful. Come together and do it side by side. But if they're not there yet, come anyway. When one person changes the way they show up, the whole relationship begins to shift. You are not powerless just because you're the only one who said yes. You may be exactly the person God is using to reignite this.
Four live two-hour sessions with me. Live coaching every single week. My F.U.S.E. framework. Weekly challenges to lock it all in. Every session recorded so you can revisit it anytime. And a circle of faith-driven couples and individuals doing this work right alongside you, so you're never doing it alone.
Until now, the only way to work with me this closely has been private coaching at $5,000 a month.
I want to be honest with you about why that price matters. This is the first time I have ever opened something at this level. I did it on purpose, to make this accessible to the people who need it. And I don't know if I'll offer it again at this price. So if this is pulling at you, that pull is your answer. Don't wait on it.
And here's the real reason to do this now, not someday. While the kids are still under your roof, you still share a daily life to practice in. Do this now, and you don't drift into the empty nest as polite roommates who used to be in love. You walk into it as partners who chose each other all over again, with the best years still ahead.
Tuesdays · July 21, 28, August 4 & 11 · 12–2 PM Eastern · Live on Zoom (recorded)
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Twenty-two years of marriage. Twenty-six years as a PhD-level psychotherapist studying exactly how people connect and why they disconnect. Bestselling author of Hurt 2 Hope, keynote speaker, and founder of the Faith-Based Coaching Academy.
But the credential that matters most to you is this: I'm a wife who refused to settle for a marriage that was merely fine, and I found the way back to the fireworks. I'm going to hand you the map.
Real couples. Real change.
You have poured into everyone. Your kids, your home, your people. This is the month you pour back into the relationship that holds all of it together, and fall in love with your spouse all over again.
You're not starting over. You're coming home to each other.
Let's go. I got you.
Tuesdays · July 21, 28, August 4 & 11 · 12–2 PM Eastern · Live on Zoom (recorded)
Both of you together saves $100.